Fire up. Pre-heat the oven or grill to 400°F (204°C) and put the skillet on the rack to preheat it.
Prep. In a bowl, mix together the dry ingredients: Cornmeal, flour, salt, baking powder, and baking soda.
In another bowl, whisk the eggs lightly. Then add the honey and whisk for about 30 seconds. Then add the the sour cream, whisk, melted butter, and whisk until smooth. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients. Gently stir until everything is mixed, only about 30 seconds. The batter will be lumpy. That's what you want. Now add the corn, red pepper, any other add-ins, and stir gently until they are evenly distributed. It is important that you do not overmix.
Cook. Take the skillet out of the oven and add the remaining tablespoon of butter. Roll the butter around as it melts coating the inside of the pan, including the sides. Yes, I know that's a lot of butter. You will thank me later. You'll be tempted, but you won't need more. Work quickly so the pan doesn't cool.
Pour in the batter, level it more or less. Place in the hot oven. Work quickly.
Cook until the top is golden and a wooden toothpick inserted in the center comes out dry, about 20 minutes. Keep an eye on it to make sure the edges don't burn.
Serve. Cool for about 10 minutes and serve.